Family Issues
There are certain situations that can just hurt your feelings so badly and make you so angry, that you can’t even properly tell anyone about them. You just can’t verbalize the situation well enough to get a coherent point across. And it sucks.
I’ve been having problems with Rob’s brother lately. We’ll call him Gabe. Apparently, he thinks I treat his brother like shit. From what I understand, he thinks that Rob waits on me hand and foot like I’m some kind of princess and he’s my man-bitch servant or something. He went off on me recently over some shit that he knows absolutely NOTHING about because he never comes around. The fact that he never comes around pisses me off, because I thought that Gabe and I were going to have a big sister/little brother relationship when Rob and I first started dating. For a hot minute there, it was looking like we were going to have that relationship. I’m not sure what happened after that, but it seemed like after Rob and I had been dating for a year, Gabe stopped coming around us.
I just think it’s incredibly sad that he doesn’t come around because he doesn’t like me. And it’s sad that he is so judgmental of some of the stuff that Rob chooses to do. For example, Gabe passes judgment on Rob all the time for his drinking when Gabe drinks/gets drunk and Rob is in no way shape or form to the point of alcoholism. If he was, I wouldn’t be with him. Obviously.
I don’t know, the whole situation just frustrates me. I’m upset and angry about it and the more I think about it, the more angry I get. Rob apparently doesn’t see anything wrong and says that Gabe doesn’t hate me. Well, I think he doesn’t want to believe that Gabe hates me because believing that means that there’s a problem and if there’s a problem that that means he has to deal with it. He’s so passive sometimes.